relationships

there comes a stagnant point in a relationship whereby there are more fights than laughter-and it is at this point where the dilema comes. do you choose to let go or do you think of all the invested effort and decide to hold on. this dilema will present itself over and over again. the invested effort accumulates giving you a stronger reason to hold on. yet, the fact that this dilema is a dejavu sort of situation gives u a stronger reason to let go. so what do you do? 

the problem is never solved. more feelings get hurt in the process. people often say that if you have enough courage to pick something up, you should have enough courage to let something go. so where is that courage.

 its not that its a fight about something major. it can be a flight in the slightest of ways-not liking the dog, forgetting the water, being talked to slightly rude because your significant other is stressed, having no time for one another-its could be the minor-est thing yet is blowed so out of proportion.why so-because we don't understand one another enough. if you understood each other well enough, minor thing would not get out of hand, and everyone would not be so unhappy. you can tell the bitterness by how i used a negative negative rather than a positive (everyone would be happy).

is it right if everyone is not happy? if everyone is not happy then letting go should be an easy option right? then why is it a dilema? 

because we all hold on to the past-the possibilty of it being the same.we are so used to the persons presence, but is this love at all or even the slightest?

maybe not.